天涯誰與共

江水悠悠水自流 年華荏苒人已老
滄海茫茫浪翻騰 浮沉過去風雲悲

涙灑今夜吐真言 仰天而泣盼妳歸
海角天涯誰與共 能否同行問琳兒

最近

最近 by 李圣杰

你最近不说话
怎麽了为什麽
是不是有什麽事让你不快乐
听说你最近很孤单
有点乱有点慌
可是我却不能够在你的身旁
你想要的
我却不能够给你我全部
我能给的
却又不是你想要拥有的
我们不适合也不想认输
好几次我们抱着彼此都是想要哭
你常解释这样的一切都只是开始
我觉得是所有的一切早就已结束
不想再约束
不要再痛苦
下一次会有更好的情路
爱我却不能给你我全部
我能给的
却又不是你想要拥有的
我们不适合也不想认输
好几次我们抱着彼此都是想要哭
你常解释这样的一切都只是开始
我觉得是所有的一切早就已结束
不想再约束
不要再痛苦
下一次会有更好的情路
这一次我们都能很幸福


another nice song for the week.......

好心分手 (hao xin fen shou)

This is a very nice song....



好心分手 (hao xin fen shou) duet version
卢巧音 (candy lo) + 王力宏 (wang leehom)


是否很惊讶讲不出说话
Si fau han ging nga gong bat chut suet wa

没错我是说你想分手吗
Moot choh ngoh si suet nei seung fan sau ma

曾给你驯服得就像绵羊
Chang kap nei sun fuk dak jau jeung min yeung

何解会反咬你一下你知吗
Hoh gaai wooi faan ngaau nei yat ha nei ji ma

也许该分清不应再说话
Ye xu gai fen qing bu ying zai shuo hua

被放弃的我应有此报吗
Bei fang qi de wo ying you ci bao ma

如果我曾是个坏牧羊人
Ru guo wo ceng shi ge huai mu yang ren

能否再让我试一下抱一下
Neng fou zai rang wo shi yi xia bao yi xia

回头望伴你走
Wooi tau mong boon nei jau

从来未曾幸福过
Chung loi mei chang hang fuk gwoh

恨太多没结果往事重提是折磨
Hen tai duo mei jie guo wang shi chong di shi zhe mo

下半生陪住你
Ha boon saang pooi jue nei

怀疑快乐也不多
Waai yi faai lok ya bat doh

被我伤让你痛
Bei wo shang rang ni tong

好心一早放开我
Ho sam yat jo fong hoi ngoh

从头努力也坎坷
Chung tau no lik ya ham hoh

通通不要好过
Tung tung bat you ho gwoh

为何唱着这首歌
Wei he chang zhe zhe shou ge

为怨恨而分手问你是否原谅我
Wei yuan hen er fen shou wen ni shi fou yuan liang wo

若注定有一点苦楚
Yeuk jue ding yau yat dim foo choh

不如自己亲手割破
Bat yue ji gei chan sau got poh

回头吧不要走不要这样离开我
Hui tou ba bu yao zou bu yao zhe yang li kai wo

恨太多没结果往事重提是折磨
Hen tai duo mei jie guo wang shi chong ti shi zhe mo

下半生陪住你
Ha boon saang pooi jue nei

怀疑快乐也不多
Waai yi faai lok ya bat doh

没有心别再拖
Moot yau sam bit joi toh

好心一早放开我
Ho sam yat jo fong hoi ngoh

从头努力也坎坷
Chung tau no lik ya ham hoh

通通不要好过
Tung tung bat you ho gwoh

为何唱着这首歌
Wei he chang zhe zhe shou ge

为怨恨而分手问你是否原谅我
Wei yuan hen er fen shou wen ni shi fou yuan liang wo

若勉强也分到不多
Yeuk min keung ya fan do bat doh

不如什么都摔破
Bat yue sam moh do sut poh

好心分手没结果
Hao xin fen shou mei jie guo

可知歌者也奈何
Hoh ji goh je ya noi hoh

难捱就无谓再拖
Naan ngaai jau mo wai joi toh

好心一早放开我
Ho sam yat jo fong hoi ngoh

从头努力也坎坷
Chung tau no lik ya ham hoh

通通不要好过
Tung tung bat you ho gwoh

为何唱着这首歌
Wei he chang zhe zhe shou ge

为怨恨而分手问你是否原谅我
Wei yuan hen er fen shou wen ni shi fou yuan liang wo

若注定有一点苦楚
Yeuk jue ding yau yat dim foo choh

不如自己亲手割破
Bat yue ji gei chan sau got poh

Installed My Newly Painted Engine Cover

alrite... i was suppose to update the installation of my engine cover last weekend.. but seems like i'm having some problem to upload photos to my blog...the cover was installed last Saturday...

seem somehow, after installing liao....i kindda miss the old battled, rugged & worn look of the engine cover...

here's the pic of the engine bay before the installation.


Here's the pic after the installation

Spray Paint My Spare Rocker Cover

Today damn boh liao... nothing to do..fren's OC say wanna rest at home... so my fren also grounded...wahhaa..

happen to see the spare rocker cover lying in my room for months already.. abit eyesore......so decided to spend some time to do a new paint job on the spare rocker cover...

here's the pic after the paint job..... the color was much lighter than stated on the can....i wanted a dark blue metallic... end up with a striking blue metallic pearl.. they must have hired a color blind to do the labelling of paint.... but heck, it's still nicer than the current one on my car...








The below pic is wat currently is on my car... damn rotten, yeah? but not for long.... time to pluck it out n give it a new paint job as well.....

if u r wondering why my car is still having its original white color in the Engine Bay, its because my car is not having any major frontal accident before, no paint job was done in it dun believe come n see....... hehehe

low life brits - example of 猪生狗养

this 3 f**kers..... really low life assholes.....
typical 猪生狗养....

better not come back here again.... i'm sure someone will take care of u.....




http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KB_GoQ-h9Zg

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/news.html?in_article_id=490946&in_page_id=1770

http://www.omy.sg/news/localnews/200710/20071031_002_trishaw.html

come to think of it..this are the kind of problem we face.... i think in future maybe more ...old ppl who dun get to retire n enjoy their life... but instead, trying hard to work to meet ends need but end up getting this kind of nonsense from from 3 f**king idiot tourist....

is this the kind of life old ppl should end up wif here..... its time some @ssholes up there should really sit down n take a look n start thinking whether those so call "for the good of people" policy are really tat good afterall.........

why is this poor old man still working at this age..... is it because got some other old man who cannot let go n need to work till so old then everyone must be like him.... knnz

this 3 D!ckhead should be banned from coming here.... we dun welcome this kind of f**king idiots here... they should have their name in the NOT WELCOME LIST of I.C.A

来世你还记得爱过谁

有句话：这一生的最爱，在下一世，却是连一点痕迹都不能留下。来生，你还记得自己爱过谁？我不知道自己应该算是妖怪呢，还是神仙。我有个听起来很慈祥的名字，叫孟婆。虽然我实际不过是个文静、秀气的姑娘。我的职业是熬汤，就是俗称的“孟婆汤”。　

每一天都有无数的人到我这里来喝汤。他们之中，有自愿前来的，喜笑颜开的样子，说是终于可以解脱苦海，重新做人；也有的是被小鬼押送前来的，哭着喊着来世还要和某某在一起，求我放过他们。当然，我是不会让碗空着收回的。可我一直很好奇，是什么让那些人如此地难以割舍，竟能抵抗住孟婆汤香飘百里的诱惑。据说，是一种叫爱情的东西。

那，爱情又是什么？它有蔗糖那么甜？它有黄连那么苦？有时候，我也会趁小鬼不注意偷偷地翻看那些人的在世记录。看的多了，我才知道在阳间，人都是从一个个小娃娃变成大人，然后随着日月轮换逐渐老死，或是遭遇了天灾人祸便提前到了我这里。我的样貌为何从来都不曾变过？我的眼里怎么从来都没有像阳间女人那样流过水？难道就因为我是熬汤的孟婆？

我忘了是哪一年，哪一月，只是个日落的黄昏，小鬼押了他进来，打翻了我端上前去的那碗汤。“小柔，别走。”他用力拉扯着我。我一动不动。我是被吓到了。那一双手，那一双还残存着余温的手。原来人的手是这样的。　“小柔，谁也不能把你从我身边带走，你别怕，我会保护你。”他还在不停地说。“小柔是谁？”我终于问了。“你怎么了，小柔？你就是小柔啊！”我的手快被他捏碎了，而我依然体会不到疼的感觉。“你错了，我是孟婆，从来都是。”我看着他的眼睛冷冷地说。呵，原来他在阳间竟是这个样子的：泥瓦、布衣、粗茶、淡饭、书……还有一个长相与我一样的女子，巧笑倩兮，美目盼兮，一路叫他“书呆子”。他叫他小柔。　

“书呆子，你已死了。你们村的霸王李抢亲把你打死的。”我把我看到的告诉他。很奇怪，我突然地变得罗嗦。“不对，你骗我。小柔，你是小柔！”他又过来拉我刚才抽出来的手。我看到有水从他的双眼中落下，滴入我手中端着的汤中。　“喝了它吧，喝完了，你便能有新的开始了。”说完，我像以往那样稍施法力将汤灌入他的口中。他的眼神慢慢散了开去，那些泥瓦厚书，那个娇柔女子，眨眼间，消失殆尽。他随小鬼离开，不挣也不抗。我喃喃而语：书呆子，只一碗汤，你便忘了你的小柔么？难道，这就是所谓的爱情？如此地不堪一击，又为何让人甘愿为它受罪？

我依然熬着我的汤，依然偷看来人眼中最后的一抹记忆。只是再不曾大意让人握过我的手。某天，我面对一个白发苍苍前来喝汤的老者。“书呆子，你可曾记得前世，你的小柔？”我问。他的平静出乎我的预料。我自他的眼中，看到的是一片空白。难道他这一生几十年，竟是空白？“谈什么前生来世，人不过是匆匆走一遭。能留住的，自不必强求；留不住的，终究是要放手。”他转身而去，独我一人怅然面对一空碗。

又是一世轮回，他站我面前。“书呆子，你还记得小柔吗？你曾为了保护她被人乱棍打死在拜堂成亲之日。”我问。“小柔是谁？”他茫然地看向我。战争、逃亡、炮灰、酷刑……这一生，他吃了不少的苦。这一生，那个女子是陌生的，他唤她“静儿”。“你忘了小柔了，你走吧。”我把汤递过去。

爱情，竟是如此。虽然有海誓山盟，终归敌不过时间的磨蚀。
这一生的最爱，在下一世，却是连一点痕迹都不能留下。　

爱着的人呵，好好握着他的手。
下辈子，你身边的人就不再是他了。你还能记得爱过谁？

真情火柴

在黑喑年代有一个巫师的徒弟，因为无聊玩火而焚毁了巫师的堡垒，巫师为了惩罚他，将他变做火柴人，由五支巨大的火柴构成他的头和四肢。但，悲剧在于他仍可拥有思想和感情

过了大约一百年，火柴人遇上美丽的公主，公主途经森林时，遇到大风雪而迷失了路，幸得火柴人把她救援，带她到山洞避雪。火柴人对公主一见钟情，但公主并不喜欢他。

火柴人为得公主的欢心，知道她感到寒冷，便甘心燃点那对用火柴造的腿来供应温暖。腿被烧毁了，但公主还未等到兵士来拯救自己，决定利用火柴人的双手再一次取得温暖，于是对火柴人说出绵绵情话，希望他能为爱情牺牲多一趟，焚烧他双手。

公主奸计得逞，现在火柴人只剩下头和身。不过，外表美丽内里自私的公主，却未受感化，仍然想继续得到温暖，她要求火柴人献出剩余的一枝火柴，亦即是他的头和身，火柴人知道这样做会同是把生命终结，但他仍然愿意为公主做一切的事，只要公主感到快乐。

「擦」一声，火柴人把头燃著了，他对公主说那段最后的对话："既然命运把我变成火柴人，我宁愿为爱情轰轰烈烈的自焚，直至死亡，总好比再闷活多一百年有意思；虽然，我知你在利用我对你的爱，但我甘心给你利用。"
　　
最后公主真的被感动。因为公主身边没有水源，她想用泪水救熄火柴人身上的猛火，但这女人一向铁心得连眼泪也不流， 己经忘记了怎样哭，到第一滴眼泪流出来时， 火柴人己经变成一堆黑炭，太迟了！
　　
而巫师永远讥笑火柴人的冲动，原来，火柴人身上的咒语只有效一个世纪，如果，他可多等一天就可以变回真人
　　
有时会想如果我们能预知将来，不知我们还会否仍愿意「牺牲」呢？
有时值得和不值得，可能只是一线之差，试问有谁可以有绝对的答案呢？
　　
如果你是「火柴人」，你会怎么做呢？
　　
我们常常成为了「真情火柴」，当你真的很爱一个人的时候，你不停的宽恕、包容所有令人不愉快的事，因为你总会不自觉想起：他如何让你开心的笑，他如何的体贴入微热情的火花把你包围在幸福的象牙塔里，使你看不清一个人的全貌，直到爱情已成灰烬，失去了燃点的温度，你却总还会问：为什么苦苦的让步，仍得不到爱情的全部？

真的需要失去，我们才会珍惜。后悔是因为，一切什么再重头，都已经来不及了。总是在失去后。。。 才懂得你到底拥有什么。。

男人永远讲不听

男人永远讲不听，
女人永远听不懂

男人嬗变是他的心,
女人嬗变是她的脸

女人怕男人沉默,
男人怕女人唠叨

女人想要的, 男人永远给不对
男人心里想的，女人永远不明白

其实这些句子也有它的意思......

有时候当男人在做某件事，会有他的理由，在女人眼里不一定会符合逻辑。

其实男人在保持沉默时，可能是为了避免和女人发生争执。
忍一时风平浪静, 退一步海阔天空

Most man or woman would want to have a caring & understanding partner by their side.....

世界上最遥远的距离

世界上最遥远的距离，不是生与死，而是，我就站在你面前，你却不知道我爱你

世界上最遥远的距离，不是我就站在你面前，你却不知道我爱你, 而是，明明知道彼此相爱，却不能在一起

世界上最遥远的距离，不是明明知道彼此相爱，却不能在一起，而是，明明无法抵挡这一股气息，却还得装作毫不在意

世界上最遥远的距离，不是明明无法抵挡这一股气息，却还得装作毫不在意，而是，用自己冷漠的心，对爱你的人所筑起的一道鸿沟

人生犹如一本书。愚蠢的人将它草草翻过，聪明的人却会将它细细阅读。为什么呢？因为聪明的人知道，只能读一次。

别只是永远被你排诸于外...当失去了...流泪又能做什么...
人生就是如此当一个人深深爱你?
你不曾发觉, 当他逐渐放弃你
你却当头棒喝猛然惊觉
为什么我们永远也无法得到真爱
想念一遍一便在脑海中演练
不停的想不停的想
锥心刺骨的痛一天又一天
不曾停止为什么

想一个人的我好想好想
爱一个人的我好爱好爱
恨一个人的我好痛好痛

因为勇敢的付出给我只是无止境的泪水
或许今生无法相聚
但是我永远也不会忘记我的最爱因为.............. 我喜欢你
天上耀眼的星空
每颗星星都是给你的无数祝福

Desire makes everything blossom;
Possession makes everything wither and fade

被爱永远是幸福， 爱人是痛苦

被爱是幸福， 爱人是痛苦

i really envy my good frens ard me having such lovely & caring partners..... its so warming to see them so lovingly together.... at times i really feel so lonely and out of place.... but I’m always happy for them.

its been like 6-7 years since I last went out on a date during poly days….. how time files….岁月不留人 (damn...i'm already 31yr old)… its been a long lonely journey since then. Amazingly I don’t know how I managed to pull thru all this years alone…. as everyone ages, companionship is what one yearns for…. I guess the only reason I remained single is the deep fear of getting rejection and end up loosing a good fren from the opposite sex…. It really sux being rejected. The worst was only being treated as a caring brother after all the time, tat really hurts(OUCH!). 从心动。。。。有了行动。。。。却转变成心疼
but I must admit that the process was still very much enjoyable and sweet until the final verdict came. It feels so good to be able to be caring & giving to the one u loved. 爱无须感恩的回报，没有谁对谁错, 也没有谁负谁。

Sometime bac a stupid 笨男人 met the one & only one “仙女下凡”. 笨男人 was hoping this would be the last and final stop for him……. At tat time, 笨男人 was still struggling to face the “fear of rejection” … I guess that stupid 笨男人struggled too long…. It still end up the way which 笨男人 had very much feared….. till now that stupid 笨男人 still couldn’t forgive himself, his stupidity, his actions. He's really a stupid 笨男人. Dunno wats holding that stupid 笨男人 back …. jus couldn’t find the courage to face his fears. 失去了再也找不到。

What’s left now is jus a regret that carries with me thru the rest of my life.
偶然相遇是缘分。错过了再也找不回。

Sometimes I wish I could turn back time and do those things that should have been done.

相遇难，相爱更难
祝全天下有情人终成眷属

笨男人(thats me)
何时才能走出黑暗,
是否还有机会???
谁能告诉我???

Father's Love for a Son

man...i got this vid clip thru an email...... this man is a great Father....
its really touching..... undying love for his son....

Finally a car after a 3yr absence

i finally bought a car last Dec after using public transport for 3 yrs....

i've got myself an old car, a 1992 Suzuki Swift GTi Mk3..... this is a car which i had always wanted during my teenage days...

list of items on my car
JDM Cultus Intake Manifold
JDM Cultus 4-1 Exhaust Manifold
Nology Hotwire Spark Plug Cable
HKS Super Flow Mushroom filter(200mm)
Pivot Voltage Stabiliser & Grounding Kit
Greddy Emanage (blue)
Greddy Oil Catch Tank
Broquet Fuel Catalyst
Fuel Max
Front & Rear Cusco Strut Bar
Koni Yellows absorber with lowering spring
185/55 R14 Federal 595 tire
Front Slited Brake Disc Rotor
Mintex Brake Pads
Steel Braided Brake Hose
WRC Deep Dish Steering Wheel
Suzukisport Gear Knob
Razo pedal set
Pioneer P7350 single disc headunit
PPI pre-amp
Phoenix Gold QX4075
Phoenix Gold QX2350
JL Audio 10W1-4 Subwoofer
MB Quartz 6.5" Component Speaker

had done up some stuffs on the car.... and will be doing some cylinder head works later on this year...... i'll post the progress of the works on the cylinder head here.... so do check out.

the biggest misery in life is not failure, but regrets

its been quite a while since i last update my blog, work has been overwhelming & exhausting lately..... i havent done any pond fishing since Jan this year.... havent gone offshore fishing for abt 2 years.

life wasnt the same since May last year, the darkest moments of my life, a nitemare......how i wish it all never happened.... i guess i've screwed it all up myself, i can only sit here & regret my actions & stupidity....i know it can never be the same as before again.... i'm in a real mess.

Thereafter too many things happened ard me. My auntie pass away, my beloved Grandmother pass away early this year..... i was in a depression state & was really down.... got no one to turn to, didnt want to meet or speak to anyone nor do anything on the weekends...... i went drinking alone on weekends..... i jus buried myself with my work everyday..... Sorry my frens for not taking up any calls at that period of time.

somethings u can jus let go easily n forget all abt it.... somethings u jus cant, thats especially if that something means a lot to u........... till today tat special someone still means a lot to me. it may seems tat i may be wasting my time, but thats my take. something that i believe i'll never regret doing it so for as long as i lived.

the biggest misery in life is not failure, but regrets

IT TAKES A SECOND TO HAVE A CRUSH ON SOMEONE ..
IT TAKES FEW MINUTES TO KNOW SOMEONE .
BUT IT TAKES A LIFETIME TO FORGET


香烟爱上火柴就注定被伤害.
老鼠爱上猫咪就注定被淘汰.
我爱上了你就注定离不开